“Mamma,
what came first: The Chicken or the Egg?”
Oh boy! The
question that’s baffled the world is now hurled on me. “I don’t know son…ask
Google”
“Mamma, I
know!” See….first you came and then I was born – a baby and now I’m a little
girl.
Perplexed, both
Mother and Son look at her incredulously.
She goes on
to explain- “You’re the Hen- I’m the Egg that is the baby and then it becomes a
Chicken that’s the little girl!
SOOO, the
Hen came first then the egg and from it came the chicken. Easy peesy lemon
squeezy!!”
Wonder how,
but the little grandmother’s logic sounds true. The Mother came first and then
followed Life. What about the father? -Of course he was there but that’s never
been part of the question has it?
So why have
Women for centuries been made to believe that they are the “Weaker Sex”, “the fairer
sex”? That Adam had to leave the Garden of Eden because of Eve? Patriarchy as
we have lived with for centuries is based on Fear. Men know the fore entry of
the woman, which makes her irreplaceable but if she finds out what would happen
to them? So they dominate over Women on the pretext of physical strength. Make
the woman feel inferior. So ingrained is this dominance in our psyche for
centuries that women themselves believe it. “What can I do? I’m just a helpless
woman.”
Helpless no
more- Times have changed. Women are leading in all fields except their own. At
each point in her life the woman has been taught to put the interests of men-
her father, her brother and husband before her own interests. She must finish
her household duties and then step out to fulfill her dreams and pursue her
career. She must be there for her kids and make time for them before she can go
watch a movie with her own friends. The woman has to mandatorily lay the table
and serve lunch to her in-laws and husband first before she steps out for the
kitty party. All of this she does as part of her duties. While doing this and more
the duty to herself- her physical and emotional well-being is forgotten.
Put yourselves first, girls! In any and every situation. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourselves first. Try it and see how well you take care of others then. The happiest and most successful of men are the ones who put their women first. Mine included :)
Only if the mother is fed can she feed her children well. If
the wife or daughter in law is happy and contented can the others enjoy harmony
within the family. The women staff at any organization give more than their 100
percent if the work environment is healthy, satisfying and enriching.
Live for
yourselves and then for all those who care for you and need you. The
policy of laissez-faire that Adam Smith, the Father of
Economics proposed years ago works well with women too. When you let women be
and live the way they want to, they will raise better human beings, create
better work and home environments which helps society and civilizations to thrive.
Believe “That you’re worth it” and the rest of the world will too!! Come, take a joyride on the carriage that says “Ladies, First”.
